Cantankerous

How do you deal with people who are cantankerous? Are there any such people around you? I have lots of them around me, but they are difficult to handle.

Just a reference: Cantankerous people are ill mannered, ill tempered people who are quarrelsome in nature and are always picking fights with other people.. Even when there is no reason.

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I think I should start looking at my own mistakes before I point my finger at someone.

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Yes that is a good thing to do, as you do not want to be a hypocrite. However i am not saying you point fingers at anyone. I am asking how to deal with such people :) ..

hmmm.....by being nice with them or by ignoring them....

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well thank you that was what i wanted :) ...

first i was gonna say tell them off but then the fight will never end so now i say just ignore them..

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yeah that is a good thing, i will ignore such people from now on too :hmmm:

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If you can handle it then confront them otherwise ignore them.

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Alright but what if in daily life you bump into them all the time, what if this someone is uni and in ur friend circle then?

^ then just make an excuse like oh i gotta go here /there wherever..so that u will be wiht them for least amount of time..avoid them like plague..delete them off msn..and sure enough after a while they will ge tthe point!:)

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Yesh yesh that is all right but sometimes these people are the third one..

like for example this girl i am talking about she is very close to my bestfriend, my bff knows that i hate her but because she knows my bestfriend i cannot completely ignore her as i see her in university and my bestfriend's house etc....

sometimes it is really hard to ignore such people.

Hire someone to assassinate them :CareBear:, there is no other way to get rid of these buggers in that kind of scenario.
I am just kidding. What else one can do , they did not invent this kind of vanishing cream either which you can apply to them and they vanish.
Now that's a million dollar idea.

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What? And here I thought it was a belated welcoming thread for me from Aisha Fair&Lovely-wali.

Anyways, I can take solace in the fact that I introduced a new term to her. You can thank me later though.

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call FBI and tell them u have some terrorist looking terrorists terrorizing you. rest FBI will take care of. :chai: