cant stand the spouse anymore

wow gudia
impressed, very well said.

xoxo1
As you said it yourself: "A day later, he apologized to me .......", i think that should give you the anwser what you must do.
Imagine if you would have said or done something stupid and you would have asked for forgiveness...........would u not have wished
the other to forgive you?

Believe me its not easy to ask for forgiveness because EGO playes a big role and it does not allow anyone to ask for forgiveness and you hubby did
have the courage to ask for forgiveness and respect that please.