Re: Can’t leave single mom. What to do?
I know the feeling! I am the only one living the house with my mom as well. Altho she is independent and wants to rid of me 
…i know that deep down inside she will be lonely without me.
I have always made it clear that my mother will be living with me (even tho she says she will live alone) wherever I go…not right away but eventually. I have 2 other sisters who have husbands who are more then happy to have her live with them as well.
but to get to the point of this topic…
you too need to make your demands (as far as your mother is concerned) known. let him know what YOU want…and try to come up with a compromise. It seems to me that he is trying to comprise but his words are only words right now. Actions speak louder.
I suggest you learn how to drive and dont rely on him to take you. this way you can go whenever you want and not depend on others.
stand firm in what you want…and hold your ground. this isnt something petty we are talking about…this is your mother who will be spending her years alone if you dont.