Can't believe this...

I was so shocked when i read this story, i just couldn’t believe my eyes.

(CNN.com - Grim motives behind infant killings - Jul. 7, 2003)
SALEM, India (CNN) – Fifteen hours after a baby girl was buried alive by her father in central India, police managed to pull her out – and she was still alive.

Police say the baby survived because she had been buried among stones and there was enough space for her to breathe.

Every year, thousands of baby girls in India are murdered by their own parents.

Sociologists blame such killings on a widely held Indian belief that girls are an economic drain because families still have to pay expensive dowries at the time of their marriage.

Authorities have said that over the past few years, more than 4,500 female babies in India’s southern Salem district alone have been killed – by their own parents.

Social scientists say the severity of the problem of selective abortions is so bad, the country’s gender birth ratio shows there are 880 females for every 1,000 males.

Modern technology has only worsened the phenomena. While infanticide has long been practiced, female foeticide is a relatively new phenomenon.

Over the past decade, inexpensive access to ultrasound technology has led to many families determining the sex of an unborn child and then aborting it if it is found to be female.

New laws and an aggressive intervention program mean fewer girls in Salem are being murdered.

But the practice of female infanticide continues.

Officials in this south Indian city have put the word out to parents they will treat every suspicious infant death as a homicide.

Police, however, are still finding the shallow graves of babies and say more than a hundred female children here are killed by their parents every year.

A Salem woman sits crushing grain as she tells CNN she has to live the rest of her life with the pain and guilt of knowing she murdered her own new born baby girl.

“I wanted to keep the baby. But people around me said, ‘You have three daughters. Why do you want to have yet another one?’ How can I kill her, I asked?”

"They suggested giving the baby something that would kill her. So I got some tobacco leaves, mixed it with water and gave it to the baby. She died.‘’

In the southern Indian district of Salem, such murders are fairly common.

In this region alone officials say that over the past year about one hundred female children have been murdered by their own parents. Some were asphyxiated, others poisoned or starved and many just left to die in sewers and garbage dumps.

shocking.

:teary1:

this is the same whether among imoversihed villages in India or in china or in Pakistan. In patriarchial societies, it si the women that suffer. I am gonna change all that.

Matsui, you really have to drag Pakistan into everything Indian.

We know it. You don't have to try so hard.

These kinds of posts from you only damage your unbiased credibility.

Well fact is that doling out mithai for baby boys DOES still go on in both Pakistan and India so that must mean something. I'd like to think that this infanticide doesn't go on in Pakistan though.

Funguy, check out the male to female ratios in countries with patriarchial soceities. You would be shamefully surprised. This also happens in subsaharan africa.

:(

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Well fact is that doling out mithai for baby boys DOES still go on in both Pakistan and India so that must mean something. I'd like to think that this infanticide doesn't go on in Pakistan though.
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u'd be surprised to hear about all the stories of wadairas in internal sindh and punjab. they have their own little culture where there r no concept of nikkah .. wadairas can have as many mistress and wives .. jahalat ki kami nahien .. wheather it be India or Pakistan or America.

ok people have criticised me for always referencing something to my life... but what the heck...

when i was 9 ihad gone back to pakistan for my first visit.. i remember running thru one of the gali's in gujranwala.. on one side there were these tall old fashioned dark houses.. on the other a huge park.. and inbetween stood a huge stone wall..

i was running to the end of the gali along the wall when i stopped and saw part of it had broken away and fallen on the side i was running on... and i couldnt believe what i saw what came out of it...

a small baby.. the most beautiful baby id ever seen.. had been buried in the wall and had fallen out.. i think it must have been a new born cus the skin was soft and one of the ears was stuck against the skull... it was so fair that dadi amis and nani amis would have wanted a grandchild like that... and it hands... man... at 9 all i wanted to do was pray that somehow God would breathe life into the baby and i could take it home...

how can people do that?

Shocking indeed!

very sad! :( :( :(

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Well fact is that doling out mithai for baby boys DOES still go on in both Pakistan and India so that must mean something. I'd like to think that this infanticide doesn't go on in Pakistan though.
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Yaar it is not only in Pakistan. Passing out sweets and shooting in the air on the birth of a baby boy is seen in a lot of places, not only Pakistan. With some Arabs, if the daughter in-law gave birth to a girl they (mother in-law) would say "oh you gave us a girl". I mean how dumb is that.

Re: Can't believe this...

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**But people around me said, 'You have three daughters. Why do you want to have yet another one?'
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unimaginably sad.

it is said....
but its a fact....
and Allah knowing this has told in Quran or more than one occasion not to kill the children....

and describing the day of judgement, He says

Quran 81:8,9
And when the girl child that was buried alive is asked
For what sin she was killed

:(

surprisingly islamic countries have high male to female ratio though
there is no evidance of female infanticide .

http://www.geographyiq.com/ranking/ranking_Sex_Ratio_total_population_top25.htm

sadzzz...

An Indian will always be an Indian!!! what an excuse to bring male to female ration in this topic.

Back to the topic…wherever it happens…its disgusting and unhumane.

Prophet :saw: said: Daughters are REHMAT from Allah swt.

He himself had daughters only…and he loved them. Even the first person to meet him in heaven was Fatima :razi:.

Where ever you have town named Salem, a witch-hunt will start.

Very sad indeed.