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God knows what else he has lied about. Cancel...now!
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call it off. Dont marry a liar. seen too many ppl get divorced over lies that start out like this.
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what if your fiance tell you that you are the most beautiful woman in the world. Will you still marry him :D
if he's lied about one thing, i wont believe him, how would I know he's telling the truth when saying that to me?.. But Shukar hai allah ka my fiance is not like that Alhamdulillah, he's a veeeeery honest and loving man!!
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whats wrong with the age TLK - and no body hides it thesedays
If we can show people larki walay] our bank statements to prove our credit history and incoming Income - why would we mind to show them our Age card ....
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Lying shouldn't be acceptable under any circumstances but you need to realize whether his lie has actually affected your life. Have you asked him why he lied to you? Maybe he was too ashamed too tell you that he doesn't have a degree or maybe he feared of losing you if he had told you the truth. Also, was his educational status the only reason you were marrying him? I mean if overall he's a nice guy, respects and loves you and your family then I dont think you need to cancel your wedding. You won't get a perfect package in life so sometimes you have to make compromises.
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You have to imagine how much pressure there is on younsters these days to be even more successful, even more rich, even more educated. There is never enough especially within our cultures. With that in mind there are alot of people that feel under pressured to lie to get somewhere.
Honestly, if my fiance was doing well for him self and has lied that he has a degree there is no chance that I would break my engagement with him over something like this. We say we cant start our life on a lie but if we can so easily break off an engagement then what does it say about our will power and commitment to make things work? Its an engagement not just dating somebody!
I would want to know why he lied and put the question across to him that if he was able to lie to me about this with such a straight face how can I trust him in the future? I'm sure if he was a good guy (which must be the reason I'm marrying him the first place) then he will feel remorse for having lied and would have an explanation to put my mind at ease.
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I totally agree. Better to deal with it now than after the wedding.
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What if you come to know after the wedding? What would be your reaction then?
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marriage is very noble n holy thing,dont lie to start up new life,education dont have anything to do NOWADAYS A LOT OF PVT COLLEGES R THERE u have to stay put n understand,RESPECT each other.
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ha ha, i'm finiding it funny that the general point of view is of a guy lying... I'm sure women lie too!
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Lying shouldn't be acceptable under any circumstances but you need to realize whether his lie has actually affected your life. Have you asked him why he lied to you? Maybe he was too ashamed too tell you that he doesn't have a degree or maybe he feared of losing you if he had told you the truth. Also, was his educational status the only reason you were marrying him? I mean if overall he's a nice guy, respects and loves you and your family then I dont think you need to cancel your wedding. You won't get a perfect package in life so sometimes you have to make compromises.
I agree with this... it's always important to know why someone has lied, cause it might be a very good reason. But I think you also need to realize that this person has just proven that they will lie to protect themself. You may not need to be concerned about everything coming out of their mouth being a lie cause there was a good reason this time, but next time there's a fear of losing you or societal pressure, this person may lie again.