Re: Can your in-laws actually be like your real parents?
THANK YOU! At least one person understands how i feel...above ones will understand it if they go through it!!! It’s not abt getting hurt to cook for 3-4 ppl extra. Why can the MIL or FIL think dat way..dat if the food is being cooked for the sons, the daughters, husband...is it going to hurt to cook for 1 extra person in the house rather then expecting the baho can do all the cooking from now on!
I do help around my MIL, like i wash dishes; help cleaning sometimes...My hubby doesn't expect me to cook at all...as long as i respect his parents! He knows it well his sisters were pampered by his mom so he exactly understand where i'm coming from...its just my MIL/FIL having too much expectation from me.
sometimes when my husband comes home from work...he likes taking nap for 2-3 hrs...so i would sleep too...then i get to hear things from my FIL like "you wake up 11/12 in the morning how can u go back to sleep again" and trust me dat sounds so rudeeeee...but i don't say anything back to him...just ignore it
Its better to work around this problem right from the beginning. Tell your hubby about it and tell your MIL/FIL tat you are not their cook. Rather its your husband's duty to provide everything for you, even a cook if you don't know how to do it.
As far the sleeping thing, tell your MIL/FIL its my life and i'll sleep the whole day if i want to. Its also better to start talking to your husband about moving out, coz things will keep getting worse with time. There is a saying that , "Lar bhar ker alehda honey sey behter hai, key aram sey alehda ho jaoo."