Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

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Re: Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

@MissMalik

it will take u a while to forget… maybe a year or maybe 2 years but u will get over it… make sure u dont have any regrets like " kash aise hota " " kash main aise karta" " maine aise kyun kaha" " yeh nahi kehna chahiye tha" etc.. of u jave any kind of regrets than justifiy them for urself n be clear abt everything every single incident…
Try to do something which is out of ruitine, it really helps… dont worry someone special will come n will stay… she never wanted to stay! Cheer up move on.. u think she is doing the same.. thinking abt u n feeling sad!!! No is not doing the same.. she is enjoying life… dont do this to urself… u re nice guy n u ve been nice to her aswell… no regrets n no sadness coz she is the one who will get it back not u… jus be proud u helped her but she was a *****

Move on u deserve the best n someone who deserves u will come soon

thanks miss malik it’s been already more than a yr maybe 2 now. Hope you are right and I can move on. I have some regrets like why did I take blame, why I spent all that time and money on her when i was not earning much? Usk har nishaane pe nacha maine. Kya mere dil tak ponchna itna asan tha? Why she used me? Was what we had only physical affection? If i want to i could say bad thngs to people in real life about her and spread things but uske saath aisa nahi kar sakta. Dhoka hoga agar kiya aise. I’m trying to be clear in my mind. I might travel. Hope someone comes my way. Already had a few rishta rejections and I’m not ready to go and find someone on my own.

My parents blame me saying if I had become engineer and was earning better she never would have left me. Mujhe lag raha hai meri galti hai.
She is not doing same she is enjoying and having fun. Bahar se aisa lag raha hai sach kis ko pata. Her parents are family friends with mine and sometimes they visit and tell us all they are doing. Sometimes at events I see her and her husband they don’t see them that close but she’s happy I think. I try to avoid her. She has forgotten I exist and both her and her husband don’t even greet me at events.