Re: Can we please have
Wasn’t talking about after marriage sadzzz…
I meant before…
My sister once got a proposal from somewhere…At that time, my sister had a green card…My older brother-in-law said they were after the green card…My father and mother refused saying such a nice family wouldn’t do such a thing…
We did our part by checking the family out, we went to their house, they brought out a whole laminated Shijra-e-Nasab going all the way to Hz. Siddq Akbar 
…Great family, good looking guy, great background and all…
So, after awhile upon the insistence of my elder BIL, we told the family that the green card had ‘expired’, just to check their reaction…(At the time our green cards were made, they didn’t have an expiration date…)
That was the last we heard of them…
What I am trying to say is, we did our part, but in the end, it was Allah :swt: who opened them up…My BIL’s ploy didn’t hurt either…