appreciate people? compliment them? be happy for their achievements?
i can, but there are many people who i hv come across who dont reciprocate these feelings. We were never raised to worry about others in our household, it was all about feeling accomplished yourself and actually looking up to people. I was totally unaware that there are people who get jealous or enjoy peoples struggles/setbacks. I’m, totally indifferent to such stuff. But when you see others act in sucha manner do you think it causes you start acting like them towards them
i have no problem complimenting other for their achievements. unfortunately, there r ppl who cant take it if anyone else makes better then them. i feel sorry for such ppl. i am sure psychology student/xpert will be able to xplain better the reason for this.
when u get a bit older in yrs you come to realize that any achievement how big or small requires effort on a persons part. little one learning how to catch a ball, a student finally comprehending a complex equation and adult finally over coming some hurdle no mater how big or small are all great accomplishment for that individual and deserves to be acknowledged.
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