Can they be friends??

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hello, can a 17 years old boy and 19 years old girl be friends? just friend. does the age metters?:slight_smile:

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:chai: yes they can

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erm.....i dnt fink it shuld.....but u know in islam it is that u shuldnt mix with bois n girls.......even though i am trying to ask for forgiveness for all my sins....i know that much.....erm but i dnt know ask some scholars or summink

Morning person?
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can a 19 year old guy be friends with a 14 year old machine gun?

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Excellent point Alhamdulilah...

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he said to her that he is 18 but he is not

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erm firstly...im jst gna forget my probs ofd this case n telll u summink dat i have seen n thought...dnt take any of this offencively.....i mean i wuv u but jst u know dnt take it to heart:

firslty ask them:

  1. do you know who allah is? 2.do u really fink that they wuld fall for each toher or JUST wna b frends if they had faith and were scared of allah?

i think that if they both realise how to respect allah then allah will help u make thr ryt decisons..so if they pray to allah they will find they're answers abt ryt and rong

hope tht sortta answers u question.

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they just want to be friend nothing else. not boyfriend or girlfriend.

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oh oki......erm axualli das a good point....i dnt no.....i FINK it myt be a no

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why?

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(remember i sed i fink)
becoz its sed that girls and boys shuld not mix and shuld only mix if realli needed to...like i gta got to skwl and derr isnt a single sex skwl near so i ahve to go to a mix skwl....and its all this that gets erm mixed up btwn scholars adn so das y i dnt no.....but this is wot is sed.....i mean i know some of us think that is frm olden daiz and evrytin but religion is religions and it wont change no matter wot....only if u wna change it frm ur heart

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oki here’s were i get techniqal

a boy and a girl can be freinds

if your looking at Islamic reasons then their are loop holes within this too
for a guy if your freinds with a girl over the internet then thats perfectly aceptable becouse ur still covered. and that “boy” will know his limits:blush:

if you were face to face you could still be a freind to a boy but you have to be fully covered (hijab) or other forms of appropriate clothing, But you must never touch each other or look directly into each others eyes:halo:

:chai:

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they are not in real life, they meet on internet, chat room, they nevar saw each other

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yehhhh paglu…well done…so u have proven urself worthy of being called aqalmand :rotfl:

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:halo:

:chai: can you please giv us either the full story or no story i hate one liners:snooty:

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i don't know why they trust each other that much.

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:smilestar:

chup kar i have always been aqalmand:p

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ok i give u full story

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well when you meet someone they have that mutual trust as we call it :blush:

by as much:chai: how much do you mean giv us an example

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my friend, meet this girl on internet and now they are friends, she is older then him. i don't think they are doing the right thing, bec on internet they are all kind of people. so if they be friends is it good or bad?