Please share your experience of someone who is close to you who has changed their ways for the better…i.e. he/she was anti-social and has become a bit social, etc. And how can u get someone to change?
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people dun change..
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people do
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^im afraid they dont unless they themselves feel they shud change, which most of the time is not the case, cus they dont see themselves as being wrong in the first place.
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^i second tht.
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People change all the time, however you can't change someone though.
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I believe one is shaped by ones surroundings... at least to start with in life... then gradually one chooses ones own path for better or worse.
I knew a carpenter once who worked hard for his money but years before he was a top criminal who could pull of the most amazing hiests.
I also knew of a man who was loving and caring he was a devoted son and a loving husband... but something happened that made him revise his view on life he came to know that for some life holds know value and death has a price... to this day he is hunted and hunts others in turn...
So yes a variety of factors can change a man or woman... the change can often be good and just as often be bad.
Poeple often tell me they will never change, i used to think i could never change but the life i've lived i wouldn't wish on an enemy.
No one admits they can be changed but even something as benign and gentle as water can cut through rock given time.