Its been around 20 yrs one of my cousin died - she was 2 yrs old…very well mannered and intellegent girl with deep eyes.. and death was very tragic as she took some medicines from a drawer and swallowed them… I cant forget how peaceful and serene she looked at her deathbed.. just like a doll.. my aunt had 2 more kids after her and in total she has 5.. very rarely we discuss herin our family.. her mother says Allah gave her another girl after taking her.. I was wondering the other day if she can ever forget her since we have a 18 months old boy who has effortlessly over took our lives.. each day brings so much fun and gala.. is there anything that can replace someone memories..
I don't think anything in the world can replace a lost child, even
if it's another child.
Even if it's not a child but another family member
the memories haunt u forever.
My mom lost a sister over 30 some years ago due to an illness and till this day
she is not over it.
you r talking about two years ....man!
we lost our 11 months old brother (coz of electric current)....n we can't forget him
my second child resembles him a lot so there is no way i can forget him!
nope.. sajal is rite :-)
my mom and dad lost their 8 year old son,...my parents...me and my sis...other family members no one can forget abt him...my mom is always like...'abhi agar woh hota to aisa hota...aisa hota'...sighzz
Re: Can she forget...
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.. is there anything that can replace someone memories..
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Never...u dnt forget or ever need to forget somebody no matter how long or short of a time they spent with u..
I always remember my mother, every single day, sometimes i remember the bad things and sometimes the good.. but no matter how many other relatives i have in my life..(father, brother , sister, grandparents) no one can replace any ones role.
Its like loving ur children..each child has their own place in your heart.
its impossibel.
Agree with other pplz here i dont think that
a mother can't forget her child.
I wonder if the feelings are the same when we are talking about a mother that has has 10 plus kids and can't even remember when some of them were born?
What if the family lives in a war torn country where parents sell their children for a few hundred dollars?
Dog Yar, That is too close to home for me. My older sister who after many years of trying couldn’t get pregnant adopted Zainab – the most beautiful thing I ever saw in my life – and she was very close to her uncle Madhanee. When she turned 2 my sister miraculously gets pregnant. When my sister is in labor, Zainab gets very ill out of nowhere. Docs discover she has a hole in her heart. She dies at the same time my sister delivers a baby boy – in the same hospital. She doesn’t find out until 2 days after, and needless to say that ever since my sister is not the same, she used to be the most uplifted girl I ever knew, and she is the most depressed I know now. This happened some 18 years ago. To this day, I can never forget her, and I don’t think I ever will.
I dont think it can be forgotten but time does heal all the wounds. Even the deeper ones, its just that some wounds take longer to heal than the others.