Salam ppl
Today i have to ask for you guys for suggestion.. and i hope you guys will give me a good suggestion.. so lets starts
i have a friend named by Sadia, well she is my best friend.. she love a guy who is in India and he is a simple clerk, not that handsome. She meet him on chat and after chatting for a while they start loving each other. and now it has been 2 years that they chat with each other. She never talked to him on phone.. Chat and email is the only way of their communication. Well she is alittle bit of shy and afraid to talk to him… that is why she never talked to him.. and Now here come the problem. (She is 20 year old) i have a friend her brother start like Sadia. His name is Atif khan. he is a computer enginner doing his PHD a very good boy and a very islamic guy. i really like that guy (like a bro). He is 26 year old, and wants to marry Sadia… I tried many times trying to Pass his massage to Sadia but iam afraid that she will mind and say that Attia you know i love majid (the indian guy) and even then you are saying this.. Now ppl i think Atif is the best guy for her. she is living with her aunt in canada her parents are dead and her sis and bro are in pak. I really like Sadia and i want her future to be good and i know with majid she cant be happy. cause he is in india too long for him to come to canada and get a good job here and earn money to marry and keep her happy. Please ppl tell me what should i do to convince her stop thinking about majid.and how should i tell her about Atif…
PLease help me… thanks
Allah hafiz
hmmm its a dilemma
U can talk with her, and tell her what her chances are :)
If that doesnt work, let it rest. Then she will either learn it the hard way or be happy :)
dunno what you could do more....
the answer is simple - indians have better jeans than pakistanis, and an indian clerk is equal to a pakistani phd. that is my massage. thank you.
honey
Ppl it is not that easy to tell her. I don't want her to take risk and you said about indian and pakistani jeans than lesson attif has got his digress from Uk warwick uni and has a great job. Now it will take majid nearly 5 years to come to canada and settle down.
lesson attia paki with digress from warwick uni is equal to chowkidar indian. and if it takes 5 years, it is because he will be nice indian row his boat all the way true love. bye bye!
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lesson attia paki with digress from warwick uni is equal to chowkidar indian. and if it takes 5 years, it is because he will be nice indian row his boat all the way true love. bye bye!
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You are right. An Indian clerk is way better than a Pakistani PhD. You are the living example, as it appears from your grammer.
talk to her… tell her bout the guy..
my friend was/is in a similar position and i always tell her if i see someone who may be remotely elegible for her…
theres no harm in telling her.. the decision is hers though 
she has a nice name between 
Queer 
jhoota na ho tau.
So she is in an E-Relationship. Does she DOS?
Show your support to her and let her worry about what she wants. I agree with Queer, a Pakistani PhD is not as good as an Indian Baboo. Baboos are really something else, with their flat-crap flowery shirts with long collars and polyester bellbottoms. Go for it.
well if she believes she loves him, not any logic, any argument is gonna change that, if she cant see where her current relationship is gonna take her, then i think u tellin her would only drive her away n she might even hold it against u...
sometimes people have to make their own mistakes (if majid is one) n deal with it. N this atif guy, if shes made for him, it jus might happen.
shes making a mistake, and as a friend you should try and open her eyes. Tell her everything on her face,,, no lies no crap,, tell her how u feel. She hasnt even met the other guy, she hasnt even spoken to him on the phone.... you should point these things out, and tell her whats best for her, and then leave it to her.
^ kaka hasnt said something this sane in awhile :k:
as a friend i think you should really talk to her. Dont bug her or force her.. and dont sound too biased, but tell her the how it is.
Coming to canada from India, is a big thing.. can take awhile
hehe I agree with Devil..plus wats the garuntee she will be happy with a richer guy??
yeah
Ok ppl iam gonna talk to her now... Lets see what she says....
thanks by the way.
Stay away from the India guy.
Tell her to grow up :~)
There are certain things that our society accepts and there are several they reject. NO matter how much we want to say we dont give a damn well guess what you have to live in that society for rest of your life :~).
I am sure Atif will have no problems with meeting other prospectives. He seems like a decent guy, I see no point in ruining his life by marrying him off to someone severely lacking in self-esteem and maturity.