well said, the huge middle ground between having x amount of kids and the more sad end of teh spectrum of aborting children or mal nutritioning them.
as much as it is a personal matter of able, adult human beings, to have kids, where the economic gets sticky, there, the concerned parties should think twice as to how many mouths they can feed.
health, population balance and adequate available resources are atriangle that must be kept in mind, when couples plan to have more than 2 kids.
i wish people could apply the simple rule of 2 kids, and raise them well, also have the balance of no excess in anything in their lives.
less is better in this context, once the family is complete i.e. 2 kids, a boy and a girl.
Thats not true. Pakistani condoms used to cost Rs 1 for 4 pieces. I don't know the current price, but it was even possible to get them free from Sub-Sitara markaz.
some people feel that having two kids is too much strain on their budget, while others have six kids - and although their budget is tight, still manage to provide proper care, food and shelter to their children.
people who are living in poverty, however, seem to end up having the most kids, which makes no sense to me. if you can't afford to feed your child, why keeping having them? and the excuse that they don't have proper birth control methods there, that doesn't really fly.
what's wrong with having a soccer team of kids? the team could qualify for the world cup one day :p
people who are living in poverty, however, seem to end up having the most kids, which makes no sense to me. if you can't afford to feed your child, why keeping having them? and the excuse that they don't have proper birth control methods there, that doesn't really fly.
what's wrong with having a soccer team of kids? the team could qualify for the world cup one day :p
nahi criket team,:p naam to roshan kare gi
thats what i think atleast 4 BACHON KO USA or UK jaise countries mein raise kerna asaan hai
cuz she had 3 herself... its similar to ayubs times, when the population was told to have just two kids, and her daughter i believe had twins... people were like 'ayub kahey no no, seemi jammey do do' lol gotta love our awaam...
Are you (we) the one who brings some one in this world (Astaghfirullah).
Duniya main aisay bhi loag hain jo shaadi kay kai kai saal baad tak aulad ko taras rahay hain…
Yeh sahi hey kay insaan “harkat” karta hey magar dainay wali sirf aur sirf ALLAH :swt: ki zaat hey… I have Masha’Allah more than two kids and Alhamdolillah, mujh say jo bhi ho sakta hey I am doing for them. The best thing you can give to your children is the right education (I dont mean to say in High Standard Schools) - Deen ka ILM khaas taur par aur duniya ka behtar say behtar…
My two eldest sons are Masha’Allah Hafiz-e-Quran and after doing their SSC from Al Khobar (KSA) Pakistani School, they have returned to Pakistan. Both of them are now in the university and Alhamdolillah, the eldest one have got Scholorship… The other boys are also good in their studies and I have never had any problem to “AFFORD” them…
I ONLY HAVE SONS - IF WE WERE THE ONES WHO BRING AULAAD INTO THIS WORLD I WOULD HAVE BEEN SELECTIVE…
Dont think that I am a rich man… I have beem out from my country since 1979 and after spending all these years still dont have any thing as “bank balance”… Alhamdolillah, I am very much happy and thankfull to ALLAH :swt: for all his blessings - IMAN ki daulat sub say bari daulat hoti hey jiss ki main hamesha dua karta rehta houn… Bachoun ki tarbiyat is tarah kar rahay hain hum (and Masha’Allah the credit goes to my wife) kay woh har haal main apnay aap ko adjust kar saktay hain - Sardi / Garmi sub main…
Oops this is my first time posting in GENERAL and I am boring you all a lot… Waisay meri baat samajh gaey houn gay aap loug - Kisi ko bura laga ho tou maa’zrat chahta houn.
thanks all, the discussion on the topic has been so illuminating. i agree with many diff reasons everyone extrapolated as well as explained in depth.
it means then, that if people have enough to afford, they should be okay with having more than one child.
Are you (we) the one who brings some one in this world (Astaghfirullah).
good in their studies and I have never had any problem 
