without physically hurting each other
Everytime there is a query about friendship, no one bothers asking about enemity 
If i cant be friend with a girl , can i be her enemy ?
What does islam says about enemity between na mehram boys and grls ?
Please write your islamic perspective in **green text. and secular views in maroon text **That way i will understand them easily 
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
Lahol wala quwat Code Red
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
Actually, by trying to become "Just friends" in this world, they are becoming enemies of each others in the life hereafter (and in this life as well). Only if they know what "fruits" would that "Just friendship" give in this life and in the life hereafter. They may have Just friendship, only if they are able to find a place where Allah (s.w.t) can't see them.
It is more dangerous to become a friend of na-mehram than to become an enemy. But the enmity should only be limited to avoiding frankly talking,** keeping gaze low*, **avoiding meeting and avoiding sharing personal and family problems*....etc. It would help in saving a lot of expenses and time.
You mean to say that those people who are sharing their personal n family problems here and those who are advising them are friends ?
jee you are friends with many folks here :roman: 
and those who are avoiding them are their enemies ?
But thats apathy , indifference. Not enmity.
Once if i give wrong advice intentionally then it I would (truly) be an enemy.
Brother please state islamically :
**Whether islam stands for friendship or enmity ? **
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
OK, I am confused. I knew this point would be raised from my post. Actually I meant to say that sharing family problems in real life after becoming close friends, which strengthens the bond, gives rise to emotional feelings and leads to further problems in daily life.<---This is not good.
Of course on forums there is no chances of any such emotional feelings or strengthening of bond as the personal information is as limited as possible and only knowledge is shared with all the people without too much focus on any specific persons gender, age, other personal information...etc.
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
ok Code Red.
I can be worse enemy becaz
my islamic views are
This my friend is a grave delusion
virtual relations are as much warm and close just as real ones. Some cases even surpass that barrier too.
Confused thought are not good matirial for preaching 
either u just think alot or u like makn ppl think alot lolzz
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
YES
code_red very good thread.
Girls can be real mean since they usualy have no idea how guys feel.
Re: Can boys and girls just be enemies
girls are not mean they are silly :halo:
main bhut ghareeb hoon 
