Can a women dance in front of her husband ?

Since the original thread by Code Rd was going south , it was rightfully closed.

But it is a genuine question for inquisitive minds so I am quoting this fatwa the answer is in the last paragraph of the answer.
Source is islaimonline.net

Question:

As-salamu alaykum. Is dancing prohibited in Islam? That is, dancing with a group of people like bhangra, by oneself, or dancing with females. Thank you for your time. Jazaka Allahu khayran. Date 18/Dec/2006 Name of Counsellor Salim Ahmad Salamah, Suad Salih

Answer

Wa `alaykum as-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear questioner, we would like to thank you for showing keenness on learning the teachings of Islam, and we appreciate the great confidence you have in us. We hope our efforts meet your expectations.

Islam is a religion of moderation and does not approve of either extremism or negligence. It does not prevent people from having entertainment; however, it provides the rules that regulate this entertainment. At the same time, Islam does not tolerate any kind of entertainment that contains haram (unlawful) or even leads to haram behavior.

Dancing can be either between women, between men, or mixed between both sexes. It is allowed for women to dance together unless it involves revealing any of the woman’s `awrah – that is, the parts of the body between the navel and the knee – in front of other women. It is also allowed unless the dancing means that mandatory obligations will not be carried out or if it coincides with unlawful acts.

In this regard, Dr. Su’ad Salih, professor of Fiqh (Islamic jurisprudence) at Al-Azhar University , states:

Islam is a religion of moderation; it does not prevent singing and dancing, but it forbids anything that stimulates people’s desires, whether it be among men or women. Women are supposed to observe good manners if they dance in front of other women. They should not exceed the limits by doing anything that stimulates desires and incites evil. There are many cases where women are tempted by other women.

However, if a woman dances in front of her husband, then there is no restriction, as it is a way of cementing relations between spouses – and this a key pillar of establishing the Muslim family.

Moreover, Dr. Salim Ahmad Salamah, Dean of the Faculty of Usul Ad-Deen at the Islamic University, Gaza , adds:

It is permissible for women to dance and sing as long as there are no males around. In addition, the words of the song should be free from any foul words or vulgarity. Thus, as long as the words of the song are pure and clean and there are no males, there is nothing wrong in dancing.

By analogy, men are allowed to dance together as long as they cover their `awrah (the parts of the body between the navel and the knee) and there is no fear of temptation.

Men and women dancing together is absolutely haram in all cases, except when a wife dances in front of her husband. The reason behind this prohibition is that with mixed dancing bodily contact is close and improper sexual desires are aroused. This has been strictly forbidden by Islam in an attempt to block the way against evil. If men and women were permitted to dance together, a lot of haram acts could occur. That is why mixed dancing is not allowed.

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im not onboard as i read what appeared to be a mistake in the introduction of the answer. what does moulana ibrahim desai say?

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If you are not on board with this fatwa good for you , you can post one which refutes this fatwa , internet is a free for all forum anyway , right ? You expressed your disagreement but did not provide any reference as to why you do not agree with this fatwa .

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thank you mirch.

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:hmmm:

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My pleasure.

Whacha thinkin ?

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I ain’t telling :chai:

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well i responded to the fatwa, no criticism to you for posting it. afaics you are not bullying af/pak villagers with it, so i have very lil problem with it.

actually i wrote the above based on a personal hunch, ready to accept if moulana ibrahim desai also said the same. ive since checked ask imam database and indeed it turns out mufti desai prohibits it as an islamic pursuit.

the differing fatwas do throw up a can of worms but have a look see what you think
http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.php?askid=c5f51aa1f15f631a2fddc730af2dd331

http://www.islam.tc/cgi-bin/askimam/ask.pl?q=13365&act=view

obviously, concerning the differing fatwas, the first question which comes to mind is if islam is a part of living a life, or if islam is itself a whole way of life?

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OK , :khumar:

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I don't see what is wrong with spouses entertaining each other, when I feel down I force my husband to do his geeky robot dance to make me laugh.

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Thankyou Mirch Saab for changing the directions to North West Frontier :k:

Apparently my stance was very clear and it is still crystal as a glass of vodka.

Shardmany sahab - Mufti Desai sahab need to clear my two points with explaination, if wishes so.

  1. ) Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) entered the city of Yasrab ( now called madina) after leaving his home town (Makka). Girls in Yasrab chanted songs to welcome him and showered him praise for his arrival. The songs were sung with music. There was smile on Prophet’s face.

2.) Prophet Muhammd (pbuh) took his wife to show her festival at a place near the city. He showed her circus, performance of traditional dances, show of Precision throwing and wrestling. They both enjoyed it.

If these incident are wrong then reject them.

If they are right then explain how your ( Mufti Desai’s) answers is in line with Prophet (pbuh)'s teaching and way of life. thanks :flower1:

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lets allllllllll dance together :D it doesnt have to get sexual. it can all just be a bit of fun too?

I dance with my mother sometimes. She loves it and is full of pride that her son is all grown up and she can dance with me.

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Some dzikr practices called hadarah are like dances ... The truth is 'dance' is not something that needs to be taught it comes from us naturally ... see little babies that shake and wobble when they hear a beat ...

However this is pure and far removed from belly dance to husband ... the ruling that would be against this practice would probably be something to do with addressing the practice wholesale ... we do not imitate the kuffar ... if we see something praiseworthy then we can modify it and adopt it. The idea of husband and wife both being well dressed and clean and presentable for each other is already understood ...

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I am here to defend my stance.

But I am a bit confused why some ladies would feel humiliated by perfectly legal, religiously and morally fair request by an innocent husband ??? :confused:

I will ask again What is wrong in this healthy activity which will increase your love meter from 20 to 200 nautical miles/hour.

Would you ladies feel humiliated if your husband asks you to rub his feet ?

Would you ladies feel humiliated if your husband asks you to wash his dirty laundry and polish his shoes ?

Why on earth this innocent and private activity offended you ???

This is by all means win win situation. Instead of earning Gunnah, you will earn Sawab. That too three times.

Instead of gaining nasty weight, you will maintain perfect figure. Then again more attention and appreciation from husband.

Tell me where i am wrong. What are the drawbacks. :chai:

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Its just the way you put it in the previous thread.. request to dance on munni, hips don’t lie - i’m sorry but that definitely feels degrading. And there are many other ways to earn sawab… which don’t involve dancing on such indecent songs for your husband. The husband shouldn’t make such vile requests due to which wife’s self-respect could get hurt. Put yourself in the wife’s place, and your husband ordering you: cook for me.. now rub my feet… now dance for me on this and this song. There is a difference b/w a wife and a you know what. Then you come here acting all innocent and say oh why did they get offended? What are you playing at?! :mad:

P.S: aww look at you helping her keeping all that nasty weight off (seriously till now i was thinking it was once in while request but you were hinting at a full-time dancer), what more could a wife ask for?

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These were just few examples …

Shakira is an excellent dancer, period.

If I admire my wife by saying ’ Your smile is more mysterious than mona lisa ; Da Vinci needs to revisit this planet soon ! ’

By your conclusion I would be degrading her by comparing with a piece of art ?

You can not staple marvel of art with any personality. But we can apprecaite it.

Mostly Girls love dancing. Be it eastern or western. If your religion allows you to explore it then why hesitate.

This is very indigestable fact that islam is a very goood religion and way of life. It does provide you breathing space and lots of avenue for explorations :slight_smile:

Explore the horizons

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And what about the fact that such songs are considered haraaam in our religion?

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I like soups. :)

Kosher soups are tasty in my opinion.

I wont consume soups if they are not kosher :)

I will find tasty soup somewhere. The world is not enough

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Code Red, I think you best make sure your potential wife is up for that dancing stuff, because I don’t think many women would do that at all. It would be weird asking your wife to dance on munni, that’s just crazy lol. If she wants to herself then that is a different story :hehe:

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You can’t watch Shakira dancing … you request it from your wife remember! If you don’t have a wife you must stay without … don’t look at Shakira’s hips, they do lie … because you will never get never them inshaAllah. If you ever get a chance to get near them then please abstain and restrain yourself to save yourself from gunnah … Bro you need to get married - on second thoughts don’t get married … poor girl won’t know what hit her. You’ll probably keep telling her that she is not as good as Shakira …

This thread was okay for a bit of light-hearted thinking about a serious matter, but it is coming to its end please conclude it will be locked in 24 hrs inshaAllah.