Re: ===Calling Your Spouse "APP"
When our conversation switches to talking in urdu (which I do when I am angry at him), I call him tum, I have never called him AAP and feels so weird because we are the same age and have known each other for so long. But after marriage, while talking to my relatives in Pakistan and refering to him by his name and calling him tum, they started freaking out because it was just oh soooo disrespectful. He really doesn't care, he said I can call him whatever I want. It may sound bad to alot of older people but I just feel sooo weird having to call him aap, maybe because it sounds sooo formal and with my husband, I even hit him playfully on shoulders or on the cheeks sometimes.. imagine that freaking out my relatives :D