Re: ===Calling Your Spouse "APP"
aap....tum...hey you....oye larkey.... :) LOL.....i cant do the formal act with my husband...its so boooooring!!! now i really hope no one brings the argument of 'arrange vs love'....because it sounds really silly.....I had only seen my husband as a kid.....and then I saw him a week before our nikah..after the 'haan'.....I think the reason a couple communicates successfully is directly related to the way you see each other.....is your informality limited to bed only......? or you actually share a healthy relationship full of love/respect...?
for me ..'aap' doesnt signify respect...it just causes an uncomfortable...awkward distance....
i call him aap...during arguments though.... :)