Calling women by disparaging names

Yesterday, I was out with some folks from work. One of the guy’s gf called and he told her that he was sitting with some frnds at work. Now at the end of call, he says “See you soon Sweet T*ts”.

That kinda took me by surprise but he was ok with it. Granted he was a gora so they are more liberal in this stuff.

But how would you ladies feel your sig other calling you sexually suggestive names in private, let alone in a public setting?

I've lived in KSA, Pakistan and Ireland. Nothing shocks me any more. I've seen and heard it all.

However, I would definitely disapprove of this.

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i wouldn't do it and i would be very uncomfy if i was inur place

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Highly embarrassed.

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I would've pretended not to hear that.

In private, anything goes, but in public, there should be a degree of respect and courtesy.

Usualy im all for couples doing whatever makes them happy but this isn't one of those things (calling them names in public). especially these kind of names.

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What is the answer expected here from women??

so lets say a wife does let her husband call her sexually suggestive names to her in private and she doesnt mind it...is there something wrong with her?

i would love to hear in private… per woh kuch kehte hi nahi :smack:

Not at all. That is between them. lol

The question I think was other men calling women with various names.
Well, come to think of it, 'other women' may not object to it! ;)

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If a woman expects a guy calling her names like that in a public setting is marriageable material, she's insane.

If she, likewise, is using this guy as her sex buddy, then, well, isn't it obvious?

Meh. I was just called a disparaging term by one of the Religion & Scriptures mods; that's nothing if not an honor: few religious folks ever really consider me worth burning in Hell for.

Assuming that when you say "disparaging names" you mean profanity, disparaging terms can have have different meanings depending on the deliverer and the context of a delivery; everything has to be viewed in context.

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LOL, sweet t*ts, So what?!
Gosh who cares!

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In private, its different. In public, its a no no.

Unless you want your friends viewing your girlfriend/wife/fiance with the same eyes...you dont want to cast your significant other in that light.

is she likes it what do you care?

One of my friend call bhabi "chanda" and sometimes "janu" even when both are together in public and some people may find this offending too ....

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If the woman can walk around with a shirt saying "This is what people mean by Double D" then why not be called sweet tits.

Every individual has different standards and different levels of what is acceptable. I am traditionalist. So I would never do that. And I am not that much into PDA anyway. So their choice, but I wouldn't do it.

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I don't think even a Western guy would use such term for his wife, for his gf, he might.

maybe she has Sweet T*t’s .. oh well :bobo:

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If he called someone else's wife or gf like that in public , then it will start a riot. But as long as he is calling his woman like that , it should not bother anyone else. What can you do , just move away or close your ears.

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lol who says that these days? it doesn't matter if you're black, brown, white whatever, saying that to your sig other infront of your buddies is a huge sign of disrespect. What a douche. Some ppl are ok with it but personally I'd feel really hurt and embarassed. I can't ever imagine my sig other saying anything of that sort in front of ppl. It's so true, one of the prevous posters said that his buddies will start viewing her with the same eyes.

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^ I agree.