calling upon all wise--pretty--well respectid girls on GS.

[Sunset_Eyes]

@Sahar02

Is she from a conservative background? Do you think she would be offended if you asked her out directly? Are you comfortable doing that?

If a real date seems too forward, perhaps you could suggest a few of you going out together for dessert or dinner after work. Or at least lunch during the work day. Get comfortable hanging out together, find out things you have in common, and then find a way to use one of these common interests for a more personal interaction.

If she’s given you the signs and she’s anything like me, she’s waiting for you to initiate. But you’re right, coming on too strong will make you seem like a sketchball, especially she isn’t comfortable with an over date.

I agree with Sahar - if i was her - i would expect you to come and ask me to join you for lunch - there is no harm in that! Or if you guys have intranet, why not send her a msg and tell her that you have been trying to talk to u, but due to so many people around you, havent been able to. There is no harm in that! Btw, can i ask what signs she has been relaying in order to make you think that she feels the same?:aq: