parties cant remain friends after taking back the proposal .. i've seen two friends losing their friendships over this.. its just not possible.. u did what u did, now its time to step back and .. let the world unfold itself..
dont try to be help him, getting over his confusion.. there are things that a man should learn with time, and maturity and experience.. i'm a believer that THIS should happen even if it becomes life threatening..
my advice to u would be, wait till april 15, then do what u gotta do .. lose trust, not see him, talk whatever works for u ..
mind u, time is asked for the transition, not for the solution .. solution is simple, is THIS chapter of life worth your headache? cuz if aint, dont worry about worrying for it..
i can SOMEWHAT understand being a guy why he would do something like that, but then to understand it, u would have to be a guy, too.. it just cant be explained in words.. (and no, its not justified in any way either) … u did what u had to do .. and he did what was more like a frustration pushed into a ball and kept it there, guys take it after one loss and breakdown, that entire female generation is bad and gotta take revenge from every single one of them .. indirectly, roles get merged of a sister, mother and a wife, and just WOMAN takes over, which they start to find ways to sabotage.. thats only one explanation ..
anyway.. if he comes back, well 'n good.. but from what u’ve put down on table, i dont think he will.. anyway.. all the best, be strong and carry out daily routines.. :k:
once things can be written down on paper, regardless if they are fair or not, it becomes easy to understand them .. even if they hurt, its understood..
oh well . . . 9 years ago i thought it was end of life due to a lil hiccup about the whole love-life issues.. now whenever i get time to stall and look back, ALWAYS kick me-self..
that shall pass too .. i dunno how true its gonna be, but i think u'll do just fine..
inshallah, hope is that i will.
a decade seems like the standard in these adventures, han?
for me may be
women, and i must say, good wellmeaning, strong women, would like to have it the other waya around - for ages to be with the same person, who they can comfortably trust and who will not break that trust, so matter of fact -ly.
funny, you call it a hiccup, though. may you never ever try even unintentionally, to swallow someone honest, who would give you a hiccup now :)
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