Re: calling off
thanks, trillian.
that is the sad part - for me, he was never the second best. it could be that he was keeping my trust as a probable prey.
each to her and his own, right? what i cannot, at least his and my Maker, Allah, is seeing everything.
Obviously he was not second best for you because (i'm assuming) you're in love with him. However, his actions and all the complications that have arisen have downgraded him to second best.
And yes, clearly Allah sees all - however, you must also be seeing SOMETHING to have these doubts. Don't leave it in the hands of parents, arbitraters and Allah. I'm sure even he would want you to be proactive in such a big decision in your life. It's never too late to take steps to ensure your happiness.