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Barfi,
You've gone through a lot and so glad that you have your husband.. May ALLAH give you so so so so much happiness...
Thanks Rupay, Ayesha, Sazzie, Iksa and Confucius for your well wishes and Du'as..
Just goes to show that Allah Tallah does work in mysetrious ways. For years I was adamant I didn't want to get married and even more so than to someone my Sis was trying to pair me up with for years from Pak. I guess it was written all along and it was meant to be, no matter how adamant and anti-marriage I was..
I hope Allah Tallah continues to shower his blessing on all these marriages and many more.. Ameen.
Just goes to show that Allah Tallah does work in mysetrious ways. For years I was adamant I didn't want to get married and even more so than to someone my Sis was trying to pair me up with for years from Pak. I guess it was written all along and it was meant to be, no matter how adamant and anti-marriage I was..
I hope Allah Tallah continues to shower his blessing on all these marriages and many more.. Ameen.
So true, I truly beleive you get what is destined for you no matter if you strive for other things.. May ALLAH bless all Marriages with compassion and happiness
Re: Calling all happy married girls
Beautiful and touching posts, Barfii. May the happiness and love between you continue to grow.
Beautiful and touching posts, Barfii. May the happiness and love between you continue to grow.
...InshAllah. Thanks Sahar.
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Awww...such cute stories...I want to cry!
May Allah reward you all with continuous happiness and may Allah bless all future husbands with the same hearts as your husbands...Ameen.
Well my story is a little different in the marriage dept but I do want to add a little positive spin on things by saying its not just a hubby that makes a happy marriage, its the ying and yang balance of hubby and inlaws. If you have the greatest hubby in the world but bad in laws, life can be unbearable. But even if you have differences with your hubby, if your in laws are great...life is worth living for sure!
I am blessed to have the most amazing in laws in the world. I sometimes used to joke with my hubby "If it werent for your family, I might have left you ages ago". My father and mother in law treat me like a queen, with no expectations. Ever since my father in law has passed away, I have become even closer to my mother in law before I am normally her only companion for the entire day.
I have never had one single fight or disagreement with my sister in laws in 18 years because we all remain civil and loving towards each other..even if we disagree on certain matters.
And my extended in laws (Hubbies cousins, aunts, uncles etc...) treat me like a family member and not an in law in any way. Some of his relatives in Pakistan even call me to say salam etc..and that to me is a sign of true family love.
Though my marriage is not the most compatible in the world, my in laws have made my life a heaven and I wouldn't trade them for the world.
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^ wow amazing MashAllah. its a common POV that just look at hubby inlaws se kia lena but ur story proves how imp it is to screen n know inlaws b4 accepting a proposal coz if u click with them they can substitute the family u leave behind.