Re: cake for my 1 yr old and other nuisancess
If I were you, I would let them ( in laws) eat cake! Let them getwhat they want as you are leaving soon anyways and better not to givethem another reason to fume about and complain about to your hubby, in your absence. Even if you do get your way or even ifyou get 2 cakes, they will be sure to complain about it, not eat it etc. This will make you even more upset. Have her birthday the way you want in the UK along with your friends who will appreciate the cake and oohh and ahh over baby who they will be seeing for the first time. Also, you can use this instanceto show your husband that you let the in laws have their way even thouigh you disagreed! A score for you before you leave!
that sounds like a good compromise, they get what they want, you get what you'll want when you go back to England...