Cafe thread quality and standards

[yourfriend]

Re: Cafe thread quality and standards

Wow!!.... ~cafe say aagay jahan aur bhi hain~......

interesting going on........:D

[Impulse]

Re: Cafe thread quality and standards

@Raindance

Its evident enough and don’t ask me to provide it. Check the cafe forum and you’l see the relevence of topics/contents/language and social and moral misiterpretation of islamic/social cultural values. Mostly from member Impulse and Phatima1.
The later being an underage member seems to just follow the flow,without pondering on the Seriousness of the subject matter.
I’m refering to religion related topics and thread bumping/flooding double nicks and single liners.

2ndly the subject of ‘Guys’ ‘Guys’ and more ‘Guys’, No wait! These are no ordinary guys,rather the guys this member loves to talk about and was/is in “relationship” . So what do I care,its a free world.!!

But every now and then specially when you log in , you see another thread starring at you, more guys then “liz taylor” ever had ,
No matter what you do, how you do, you’r bound to say some thing that don’t go down nicely with the person. Thus opens a can of worms and enimity starts.

It has gone as far as my computer being swamped with illegal email traffic from Gupshup archives and few melicious emails finding their way from Gupistan.org and more.
I have already provided DNA’s copies of such matters with pending responce.

In the mean while MODS can answer this question for me,
Have the rules of the cafe or other forums changed towards an ‘Open’ rated non family forum mellow drama?

Is it OK for Mods to instead of moderating a forum join in to show their solidarity with the controvercial thread opener? Endorsing the views by their presence alone? which often seen as humiliating to the person who objects .

since my name is mentioned here I thought I should reply. I really dont know what guys you are talking about. since Ive had a break from Gupshup and came back…Ive only ever talked about 1 guy. (and in the past just 1 too). so thats 2 in total. and whenever I talked about the first one it was asking for advice from people about how I should “move on with life after leaving that freak”. but now…the only reason i opened them 2/3 threads is cuz

(1) in another thread opened by another member…some1 DARED me to open a thread and say that “im in love” and thats why I did it. cuz it was a dare

(2) whenever I did post in any other thread…people would always bring “him” (the guy I talk about) up and would ask me whats going on and whats the latest. so I thought instead of being asked in every single thread…I might as well open a thread and tell people. whoever wants to know can just ask there. and I got PMed by alot of people asking for his pictiure…so in that thread “im in love” I posted a pic of his for whover wanted to see.

(3) I couldve posted the pic in Images…but I dont even know anyone there…cuz Cafe is the only place I come to. I hardly ever to go any of the other forums.

as for you, I think you have been very rude to me ever since Ive come on Gupshup. I hadnt said anything to provoke you…but you always had a mean thing to say about every single one of my threads. maybe cuz ur in ur late 20s…thats the reason you dont like what I talk about or what phatima talks about. maybe its cuz we’re girls and ur a guy. maybe its something else. but if u dont like our threads, just like Jony and shikra said…just ignore them.

since all this started cuz of me, I APOLOGISE for even thinking of opening any threads. I mean its ok to open a thread asking for “what girls would like to change in a man” and vice versa…but on the other hand, if u have found a guy/girl…its wrong to tell anyone. okkkkk…I can REALLY see the logic there :k:

as for the emails/PMs or whatever ur getting…I think u know who it must be. the same person who called u a “buddha”…he’s pissed off with ME for telling you that it was him who called u a buddha…so he doesnt talk to me these days either. and he does seem to have something against you…so its him. (unless u have other enemies too)…but I swear by Allah, its not me who sends you the malicious/illegal emails. Im not that childish.

[Raindance]

Re: Cafe thread quality and standards

Impulse dear. Let me be the one to apologies to you for any ill remarks I may have used.
We were entrapped with leading arguments without seeing the consequences.

It was simply not my type of a thing. In fact I despise it strongly.
I saw your last post in my thread and that’s where some thing snapped.

I'm sorry if I may have caused you any trouble.

I think its appropriate If I go up and 'Edit' my thread now,,, you may take the names out and leave the rest. What you say.
Thank you.
Allah hafiz

[Impulse]

Re: Cafe thread quality and standards

@Raindance

Impulse dear. Let me be the one to apologies to you for any ill remarks I may have used.
We were entrapped with leading arguments without seeing the consequences.

It was simply not my type of a thing. In fact I despise it strongly.
I saw your last post in my thread and that’s where some thing snapped.

I’m sorry if I may have caused you any trouble.

I think its appropriate If I go up and ‘Edit’ my thread now, you may take the names out and leave the rest. What you say.
Thank you.
Allah hafiz

no worries…since uve explained everything in PM, thats fine now