One of the biggest problem I see in desi-western upbringings is that parents assume the best in people and don’t give their kids the street smarts and so many young people end up in a lot of trouble. I tried giving my children the street smarts, Safy is so dumb, but finally maturing and is now with a girl we all like. I was happy Aliyaa kicked his ASS and matured him so much…
We all need an aliya in our life.
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Or even an Alyaaan would do.
We are all going to make mistakes, I wanted them to make mistakes at a young age where they can recover from it. I know you wont read his entire interview but here is a good excerpt. Look how Aliyaa matured him ..lol..
I need to thank that abusive young lady. 
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Notice how the lady says “Kis ne kaha humne aapse shadi kurni hai”
Then he will leave dirty dishes in sink, leave toilet seat up, won’t brush his teeth before going to bed, will be angry when the baby cries at night and get upset when the house is a mess…..all the butterflies will just fly away….lol
They rubbed it into my face when all these Boys in the community got the most amazing brides, one is on the 4 th divorce now mamma wants him to divorce the mother of his 3 kids and searching in Pakistan.
Yeah butterflies thing is absolutely real but things change with age. I think it has been a while since last time. Around a year may be
Thank you for the responses!
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Yeah butterflies thing is absolutely real but things change with age. I think it has been a while since last time. Around a year may be
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Towards your wifey, I hope.
In that case, cars do it for me. Especially when they sound a certain way. Think straight-piped Ferrari 355 with a gated 6 speed around somewhere like Route Napoleon, in France.
OP have you watched Sandra bullock’s movie forces of nature? Irrelevantly (or no) the movie starts with a grandpa starting having butterflies for the stripper in his grandson’s bachelors. Ok ignore that but later it does define such kuch kuch hota hai may happen anytime 
Sid, I was typing a response WHILE reading your post. And here's what I got so far:
I love Sandra Bullock- she's my fav. But no, I haven't watched the movie but if you think it's worth the watch I'll give it a ... OH. Nahi, I think I won't. OH. That escalated very fast.