Ditto that kaki#1
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very nice!
good point!
they do hijab from muslimz
but roam without hijab amongst non-muslimz!
wht a sad situation!
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double standardz!..
Whatever limits us we call fate!
Whatever we can’t change we call destiny!
My GoD! This was intended as a topic like any other…and honestly I dont appreciate Devdas or whatever your name is or a1shah, the intention here was to voice your opinion not to criticize anyone in particular! Shah if this is such a lame topic then I will gladly remove the gun pointing at your head forcing your to reply.
Now back to the topic, as for me not being able to digest respect, respect is in you eyes and mannerism. Calling someone baji doesnt mean anything unless you mean it. Kuch loago ki fithraath mey hi gaand hota hai.
As for the younger generation calling neighbors auntie and uncle, sweety all the poeple that you have mentioned are people you know in person, this topic is based on a converstion held on the internet, please keep in mind that i have never and will never meet this guy, and this was the first time chatting with him. Even one of you guys I would consider calling bhai or behan, like I used to call anchal baji, cuz I felt close enough to her.
My husband and chatting, he completely leaves the choice up to me. We both grew up in different countries and have different acquaintances so neither jumps when a memeber of the opposite sex claims to be the other’s buddy.
Interesting feed back, but have any of you ever heard of positive feed back?
Maria come on, are you serious??? Is this a joke??? How can you be offended when someone calls you bajji??? No one is trying to take your brother place…they say it out of respect…i’ve probably called you Maria bajji, sorry if you minded, now i’ll have to think twicw before calling anyone bhai or bajji, i just don’t understand some people.
I have no brother, i love it when guys call me their sister, or girls, i know they aren’t your brother or sisters, but just by calling you bajji, it brings two people closer, cause no matter how close you are to a friend, a brother or sister is always different, and for someone to think of you as a sister, would be a compliment for me…but you have your own opinion. And i respect it
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If i offended you by saying anything, i’m sorry…
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Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare…
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare…
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**This one is may be one of the most pathetic topics ever to have been raised.
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Brother i agree with you a 110%, didn't imagine that we'd ever be talking about this.
Khuda kisi ko kis par fidaa na kare.....
Agar kare to Qyamat tak judaa na kare........
hmmmm
well no need to say anthing to this MM!!
itz just like!
Bhens ke agay been bajana!
mumkin hai bhens bhi nachna lehrana shuru ker day..BUT NOPE! madan maria ko koi aser nahin hoga!..aur rahi gandi zehiyat ki baat to BIBI JI..jiski apni zehniyat saaf na ho na usko dosron ki zehniyat bhi gandi hi nazer aati hai..app apni zahniyat saaf kerlo..baqi ka gand khud hi saaf ho jaye ga!
Allah hi hafiz hai app ka!
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Whatever limits us we call fate!
Whatever we can’t change we call destiny!
Maria;
And did you know for a fact that the guy's intention was bad. No, but you hastily jumped to thisconclusion and proniunce a muslim guilty by suspecting his intentions.
You say that some people have bad intentions. OK some do but why that person.
Learn to love our muslim brothers and sisters. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Strengthen our ummat.
I have no longings to post on this lame topic but for the reason to let you know that your line of questioning is off-line and an insult to muslims.
You are nothing more than a paranoid woman. I'm sorry - sister.
And Maria, learn to spell - its "you're not my ..." and not YOUR my brother
Good Morning to you All,
Well lets see,
I 'd like to start off thanking you guys for the numerousssss replies to such a stupid topic (notice the sarcasm).
Appkiamaanat: dear never once did I say I was offended, I said that I THOUGHT it was inappropriate (key words here I thought)
he can call me kala for all I care, but by him saying so I wont feel as if it means anything, so why say things that dont carry weight?
A1Shah: never ever ever did I say or think that the guy had bad intentions. How could he, it was an online conversation !
You guys are def. reading too much into this, it was meant to be a thread for you to voice what you think, hence the name of the site GUP SHUP.
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Anyway…
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[This message has been edited by madam maria (edited January 04, 2001).]