Re: but we have ruined our generations......
Just because a woman stays at home doesn't mean she is a better mother than one who works. Bringing up children is a joint effort and not just the mothers responsibility nor do children who only get their mothers attention not feel the need of their fathers active participation in their life.
Think quality over quantity.
You have edited it now but you stated that all working women are turning psychos due to excessive pressure and responsibility, says who??? In households where all duties and responsibilites are equally divided between both parents, no one turns psycho. Its only when the wife has to single handedly take care of all chores at home with a full time job that pressure increases and 'kids are neglected' and 'husbands are unhappy' as you said. Thats not the right setup to start with so it would be better to fix it then to tell the woman that she needs to stay at home and only cook and clean and look after her family.