If you had a choice where would u want to be buried?
Majority of people in my family choose to be buried back home in pakistan in the same grave yards as the rest of their family members…
Is it important or does it not matter?
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Imp kya hona hai? once you are dead, you are dead. But han dil ko sukoon milta hai bas yehi hai.
Some want to be buried at mother's feet, some near to other parents, some just want to be buried in their hometown...i guess all of this may not make sense to some people but i think whatever makes your dil be in peace you should go for it.
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SO Being Cremated and kept in a vase in the dining room is not an option...Being at the Dinner ...all the time:D
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^LOL
Maham I guess ur right it is for our own Sukoon, but I just feel like we are only visitors in these western countries. So tomorrow when we decide to up an leave. Will it not be like we are leaving our loved ones behind? atleast if we bury them in pakistan we know its our home land no?
or am I just thinking crazy?
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^ It also depends if one wants to be buried with extended family members or immediate family members.
There are also situations where a person's extended family (grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins) are buried in Pakistan. But if the person lives abroad, their immediate family members (mother, father, brother, sister) might be buried outside of Pakistan and the person could prefer to be buried with their immediate family outside of Pak.
Some individuals might even prefer to buried wherever spouse is buried as opposed to the burial place of extended/immediate family. That can change things as well.
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i want to be buried on Mars.
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maine suna hai ke insan ki Rooh ( soul ) apni qabar pe ati hai once a week or month...to log apni family members ke as pas bhi isliye hona chahte hain ke coz they can meet thier family member's soul after death...
Next to my mom.
I have lived enough with out her :(
i want to be buried on Mars.
Hmmmm.....and we can also stick a GS flag on Mars along with the first GS rep to outer space. But first we need a GS flag.
kia yeh wohi hai jis ki “new new threads” banana humne band karwa dia tha 
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i wanna buried on moon
“bare chapal” .. .lekin meri tu abhi shaadi nahi hoi 
Next to my mom. I have lived enough with out her :(
:( I'm sorry to hear about your mom :(. Can't imagine how hard itmust be
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I guess one advantage of family grave yard is that when living members come for fatiha, its convenient as they can do all dead members at the same time...
Other than that .. I am not sure if it matters to the dead, so much
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RIP YOU ALL.................I will Inshallah visit your graves and come for Fatiha
RIP YOU ALL.................I will Inshallah visit your graves and come for Fatiha
Unless you leave us first...........and then all of us kind Guppy brothers and sisters will visit you and recite surah Fatiha. ;)
Ab zindagi ka kya pata........kaun pehlay jayega....kaun baad main.
I guess one advantage of family grave yard is that when living members come for fatiha, its convenient as they can do all dead members at the same time...
Other than that .. I am not sure if it matters to the dead, so much
You can do fatiah at home as well, right? though it's encouraged for men to pay visit to the graveyard
Unless you leave us first...........and then all of us kind Guppy brothers and sisters will visit you and recite surah Fatiha. ;)
Ab zindagi ka kya pata........kaun pehlay jayega....kaun baad main.
You Humans are mortal beings with that being said.....I am not going to reveal who i am....;)
I know humans are touchy about death and graves. Lekin may aap logoun ki kaberoun per Fatiha zaroor peroun ga.......and if you guys wont mind ..i will come with a notebook and interview you about your good and bad deeds hahahaha ( My left wing is hurting ....can't type anymore)