Re: Burden on parents
Good point but I don’t know the situation (financial/ job) of either of the of posters. In the “complications of Marriage” OP looked like she had already decided to come back and was just sad about it…if she has the option to stay, i would recommend it since that will give her a unique setting that will probably never be available to her again i.e down time to spend with husband..helps husband psychologically as he doesn’t feel like a loser and hosts you and takers care of you and shows you around..when he comes to U.S the roles reverse at least initially with some psychological ramifications too I am sure. That’s what my sis did..it worked out fine and my B-in law is an upstanding ghairatmand guy who started looking for work from day 1 and didn’t want any financial help from my parents…he found a tough blue collar job quickly through our connections.. took it right away, started working and found a his white collar job in a few months. That was all from Allah, and other people’s circumstances may be different. But in short, do it if you can ..take advantage..uss kay baad sari life kaam hee kaam hey to hai…