Re: building tensions
^^ Going by Nadz123's posting record, her MIL was against this union from the beginning, so technically she did not really "marry off her child", more like the child got married off itself according to his own choice and wish. Of course nadz know better.
Re: building tensions
^^ Going by Nadz123's posting record, her MIL was against this union from the beginning, so technically she did not really "marry off her child", more like the child got married off itself according to his own choice and wish. Of course nadz know better.
If this is a marriage of choice (and for any family in a similar situ) then would one not reduce your own stress and 'separate' the DIL you didn't want then? I'm assuming that if it gets to Nadz, then the MIL will be causing herself stress too. As I said, when you cannot 'park' or resolve the issue maybe it's best for both parties to live and deal with each other as little as possible or as much as needed to co-exist.
Also, if the above is the case; she's married to her cousin so did OP get no support from either side (e.g. blessings of at least one parent). If that's the case then even if MIL doesn't support the union it has happened, and if she doesn't get on with Nadz or approve of the ristaa then I stand by my previous idea that a marriage should only happen in such situs when your child can financially support themselves. It would reduce the stress all around.