^ LOL at THE serious-NESS! your question itself is a joke - hahahahahahahahhhhHhHh
OKAY first of all - I have encountered just one person in my ENTIRE LIFE call me BAJJI - for the first time like last year! And I was SHOCKED! Of course the relations - justifies it that he was a bro-in-law - LOL I thought he would call me by my name!
The sudden “buddhi respect” really embarrassed me to the point of no return. I hardly face him - why should I feel old??? 
doesn’t make any sense!