Re: Brothers...
Rabia...Im so sorry to hear of all this...may Allah swt shower you and your family with His blessings! Ameen!
I dont like the sound of the message and I got exactly what yout got out of it. Normally, I would text back saying something like "Did you tell Sunny why are never there for him? You should, much sadder!". But thats because Im not very patient with this type of attitude and I dont have an elder brother...not sure what your relationship is like with him.
You're doing a wonderful thing by being there for your family. From what I gather, Sam is the eldest. Knowing that, he should be the one running the house and taking care of YOU but you stepped up and that is admirable. I find it strange when people ignore how hard it is to be young and have so many responsibilities on your shoulders. I hope and pray things get better, Inshallah.
Rabia...Sam sounds like he was irritated and didnt want to be bothered. He may have said something to Sunny about it to make it seem like you were being negligent. You werent. In a way, its kind of your fault...read the whole thing...dont get upset yet. :) You've spoiled the people around you into thinking you're Wonder Woman, who can do anything and doesnt need any time for herself. Ive done it myself. No, thats not true. Everyone should be involved and helping out as much as possible. If I were you, I would take this as a lesson and start delegating tasks to other people to make them understand your brothers and mother are NOT only your responsibility. This will do two things: ease the burden from your shoulders a bit and give your family more people to depend on.
You're only human Rabia...you've got to live life too.