When ur brother got engaged did they call to tell u? Or post on Facebook somehow you’d find out right even though you don’t have a Facebook.what about nikah did he tell before he got done or I don’t 4 months later??
Re: Brothers and sisters
It's not the norm and even if people share cold vibes with their relatives they do announce it formally and most siblings are told the second something serious like baat pakki is about to happen.
And yes Facebook is killing etiquette. People who live and breathe on Facebook think everyone else does the same.