Re: brother
now they have gotten serious in getting their brother to the virgin bride who will not cut off their financial supply in any way, they want to make sure of it.
Secondly, they are fearing, bhai will always stay outside Pakistan, they will be the laughing stock of their relatives, whose daughters they have rejected.
thirdly, she is indian, they can’t predict her.
Sad to say OP, people like your brother move the world, while people like you cause trouble. lt is harsh but realistic enough. .. sooner you get sensible, more it is better for you.
br greatful your brother has not left you while knowing the very truth, and has infact continued to support you.