Brother

Thank God i only have the one!! He’s younger which is an added bonus.

I was putting the washing in and going through his jean pockets as you do to empty out all the snotty tissues and coins he forgets to take out…and there it was, folded up scrap piece of paper…a GIRL’S phone number!!!:eek: :eek: i nearly screamed!

My tiny little baby brother is becoming a boy/man!? I hate this so much, i don’t want him to grow up! I like the annoying little thing he is now…

he already spends all of his time texting and calling “people”, i know these “people” are girls, but he won’t admit it!

I like to think of myself as a pretty cool sister, i cook what ever he wants, i wash and iron his clothes, i buy him clothes, i play footi with him, PS2, i even help him style his hair and tell him which aftershave to wear!!! I admit sometimes i do mother him a bit too much, but he never wears his coat in the freezing cold weather, he forgets to carry tissues with him and he doesnt eat properly.

Do i ask him about this girl or leave him be?

i feel i need to warn him that teenage girls are nothing but hassle, but if i stop him doing something, hes only going to want it more…

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Thank your lucky stars atleast he is not gay. Help him oout with the girls, he needs you more to impress the bi1atch now more than ever. I am standing behind your brother.

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You can probably tease him :D I love teasing my bros about girls - it is a lot of fun!

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no you guys don't understand...i dont want to help him, teenage girls are evil and they'l ruin my sweet innocent little brother!!

i try so hard not to mother him, but i can't help it!
i so want to be the cool sister...but i cant stop being his mother :(

hes gona hate me :( and i will not have that! hes gona biitch about me to his stupid little girlfriends and hes love them more than he loves me.

i'v tried so hard to raise him up to be a nice, decent, well-mannered, polite young man, and these girls will ruin him!

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M-M and you gonna ruin him, let him have somefun. Its part of growing up, hep him with cards color and ither things that chicks dig and guys have no clue. He'll be a star. think +ve

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Miss_M, you are sooo cute. :kiss:

If you are curious, just ask him. Don’t embarrass him though by lecturing him. I don’t think there is anything wrong with giving him a sisterly warning about the evils of teenage girls. :stuck_out_tongue:

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What age would give your boys advice about girls?

He doesnt need a girlfriend to be a “star”…he doesnt have any street cred as it is…and i would prefer people see him as a good boy, not a player…

teenage girls are evil! honestly…i was one, i know what they are capable of. i dont wnat my brothers life to revolve around scoring chicks! Girls who are friends are ok, but i think hes too young to get involved with girls

Mehnaz…how do i warn him? What could i tell him without being too protective of him?

I understand he has to make his own mistakes and stuff…but he’s my baby brother!

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I hardly ever agree with Verizon, but he does have a point. Be an optimist and think of this as proof your brother is definately not a fag.
Besides which, all girls (teenaged or in their twenties) are inherently evil and end up corrupting good men. It’s just a matter of whether they corrup them before or after marriage :smiley:

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:teary1: that’s so cute. I wish i had a sis

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OI take that back big foot! I am not evil…im trying to do my best for my baby brother…i love him

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How old is the baby brother? More importantly, what do you hope the outcome would be if you ask him about the girl?

You say what you hope will happen, and I'll reply with the realityof what will happen.

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be nice...

hes 17 and i want him to tell me that she is a friend and he does not fancy her :p

i know the reality already...i aint stupid...but i dont want him to get hurt

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PS: You are very evil :devil:

On Gupshup, anyway.

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You can't do much to stop him getting hurt. At age 17, he'll be too horny to listen to logical reason.

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am i really?? darn, im so gutted at that :frowning:

p.s…im nice to you :stuck_out_tongue:

do you want me to start calling you chick again?

My brother is NOT horny!! he’s a tiny little boy!

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I’m not sure what to say to that so I’ll go with something generic —> :blush:

Anyway. I bet that girl’s sister/brother is sitting there worrying about what if there is some 17-year old boy after her … :stuck_out_tongue:

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no that would never ever happen, my brother is mashallah such a nice young man. hey, im the one that raised him! i did good. :)

hes just sometimes niave and i dotn want a silly blonde bimbo ruining him

Im not really that evil am i? its time of the month so be careful with your reply chick :p

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Dummy :bailan:

If he is not horny then it is a big problem.

Let him grow naturally, just guide hime a little bit. and chill :k:

Maasi mohabbat :smiley:

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its Miss not massi...:p

im not saying he cant fall in love, i just wanted to know how to warn him about the evils of teenage girls!!
i dont want him to be a player just to look good in front of his mates, i want him to respect women and know that there is more to life than having a girl.

anyway...if im not allowed to date...niether is he :D

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Oh my god, thats exactly how i was with omer, i knew these friends were girls, the im's i ignored, the anonymous phone calls, the numbers lol.. the advice for friends, hes growin up hun, Just leave him be, u can kid around out the number n casually ask, but advices of how evil girls can be, uhh no..

He's gonna run into girls that will make him swoon n girls who will break his heart, just be there for advice for his "friend"
Brothers are a blessing!!