just wonderin .. do yall think brother n sister can be the best mates or does age, sex,mentality keep a wall inbetween ?? … or i guess most of the time isnt it like .. take off for each otha like .. u do me good n ill do u good thing lol ?
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Brothers and sisters can be the best mates and the worst enemies!
depends on the mood.
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lol. I have no brother so can't tell you what it's like living under the same roof with a brother. But! they can surely be best mates. I have seen brother-sister too attached to each other in many families. It's very sweet! :)
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I wish i was close. My parents have thsi weird idea that, bros n sisters going to dinner together or seeing a movie together is inappropriate… 
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Yup. Me and my sister are extremely close and we get along really well. We are always there for each other and we talk it out straight if one or the other is doing something stupid.
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My bro and I are close but not that close where we share secrets. I know I can go to him and trust him for solid advice. I think he really showed his brotherly instincts during Hajj this year. He truly went out of his way to protect me, my sis and my mother and made sure we were never hurt in the crowds. We are good friends and close, but not best-friends.
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My brother and I are really close, we go to movies, dinner together and do lots of other things together. I always keep his secrets and have his back.
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My bro and I used to be best friends (we would even share secrets!). We're still close but now we differ in our thinking and lifestyle.
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I wish i was close. My parents have thsi weird idea that, bros n sisters going to dinner together or seeing a movie together is inappropriate....
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how come??
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^ I dunno. they jus think it's inappropriate... he's 6 yrs older than me but i duno if that matters. :(
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i have two lil bros , but i am not close to anyone of them
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i dont have any brothers
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Sure..why not?
My brothers and I get along with each other pretty well, but we aren't the best of friends.
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so at the end of the day .. they can be best mates too but there are xeptions .. is it ???
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You can't be best best friends. You can look out for each other, hide secrets and talk about many issues, but not everything, for example, sex and relationships like you would with friends.
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nah, I was never close with my sisters. They live in their own little world, and I live in mine. The only thing that is keeping us siblings from totally being detached is my parents. But when they are gone, I think I won't even go to their house or call them or anything like that unless they call me. I don't know. for some reason, I was never really close with ANY of my relatives. Not even my parents. Everyone in my family likes to hang out with other relatives and friends but I always stay away from them. For some reason, I just don't want to keep in touch with my relatives or my immediate family besides my parents.
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true
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they can be till a certain age....after that its a bit abnormal...sisters too protective or brothers very gharailoo or something like that....at the same time, if they are enemies into thier twnties thats not normal either.....generally its just supposed to be not a very close relationship...
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My older bro and i m not that close with him.. its fun to hang out with him sometimes but its very rare because we are totally opposite of each other.. but my younger bro and me are like best friend.. we play basketball and all other kinds of sports together...talk.. fights..
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i have four brothers mashallah & they r the coolest young men on the planet 
two r step brothers and two real brothers. the two oldest ones r step bros, both married mashallah happily, and live in pindi. the next one is in germany and the youngest one lives with my mom and dad and me in khi.
i am really really close very very close to all my brothers
i share almost anything with my bro who is directly older than me, ofcourse except girly stuff 
i mean i dont discuss weird topics with him, but i dont do that with my friends either. other than that i am very very close with him. 
he knows everything thats going on in my life and vice versa
with my oldest and youngest bro i dont discuss that many issues but im still very close to them. with my youngest bro i feel like im his mom 
and i cant help but act like that tho i try not to 
he is a college student. he’s the cutest one 
and with my bro who is above the one directly older than me, i talk to him about a lot of stuff too but he lives in another city and doesnt come online etc so i cant share every lil thing with him but still we’re very close.
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All of my friends are best and all my siblings are my friends.
Being the baby of the house, they all check on me often and so I talk to all of 'em more than others. After my parents are gone, I think I will have to keep us all together.