Re: Brother has had sexual contact with sisters - what now?
Firstly don’t be too melodramatic. A few people I have known and love have had abuse so I know what a terrifying thing it is. Secondly that criminal happens to be his baby brother, a brother who has just chucked his life and respect away FOREVER. Obviously he will feel distraught for him too. Its such a simple concept that you’re not able to grasp.
His sisters just got abused too, hence I am surprised and saddened he, the OP, had to defend himself to you.
Lets not forget the 14 year old is a CHILD too. A criminal child but a child nonetheless. How many families of criminals do you see shunning and rejecting them? I’ve seen none. Because family is family.
In a way the OP has had his sisters AND brother’s innocence taken away forever. I don’t know about you but to find him distraught about both people is not only understandable but expected.