Broken hearts

[Jaanwar]

Re: Broken hearts

I dont think we can equate turning someone's offer/proposal down and proper breaking one's heart (perhaps where commitment, hopes and dreams are involved). I have chased some tail in my day, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Hardly ever felt heartbroken.

[Simply_Seema]

I believe in Karma so I tried my level best 2 not come 2 any situation where I hv 2 break a heart, i hv broken other body parts alot thou 360DegreeRoundHouseKickwalaSmilie :halo:

[jalpari90]

@CM

Thankfully none. I would not want it on my head or during the day of judgment that I caused someone that deep level of pain.

I commit enough sins already to have that come and bite me in the ass.

If ten people come up proposing you, you accept all of them so you are spared on the day of judgment?

@NaMaan

JP in your case they were lucky people . Un ke koi naiki kaam aa gayee . So don’t feel bad about it

and yea in these matters one shouldn’t use heart , always use brain . It has skull on it to protect , hence less chances of a break :k:

You know your whereabouts and you are saying this. Nami, bachay, ther jao zara:smash:

@Faris_Udeen

I used to believe no one can mend a broken heart… until i realized real hearts dont break.

Hearts are not made of glass they are the engine to the body.

Hearts break dude. You cant close your eyes to that.

[jalpari90]

@Jaanwar

I dont think we can equate turning someone’s offer/proposal down and proper breaking one’s heart (perhaps where commitment, hopes and dreams are involved). I have chased some tail in my day, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. Hardly ever felt heartbroken.

Chasing is one thing. I meant a serious proposal. I have seen them down afterward.

@Simply_Seema

I believe in Karma so I tried my level best 2 not come 2 any situation where I hv 2 break a heart, i hv broken other body parts alot thou 360DegreeRoundHouseKickwalaSmilie :halo:

Karma:smack: I know we had enough discussion over it here but you cant relate everything to it. If some one has serious feelings, how am i responsible for that and how is it gonna come around hitting me in the face?

[CM]

Re: Broken hearts

Jalpari there is difference between breaking a woman's heart and just saying no to some "random" proposal.

Breaking someone's heart requires you to be close enough to that person that they value you as per they would value their family. Breaking a woman's heart is not saying no to date. It is a far more nefarious and tragic thing.

I am not sure if I am getting my point across. To break a woman's heart you have to get close to her to the extent that she cares for you deeply and then destroy something she holds dearly to the extent that she is devastated. Same applies for men, but then again I don't go for dudes.

Rejecting someone is not breaking their heart.

[jalpari90]

Re: Broken hearts

well I counted those who had been very close as friends. Then they proposed and i took a step backwards after rejecting. I never wanted to go back to being friends with them either. So i said i was ruthless.

[CM]

Re: Broken hearts

Well you can't be friends with someone after they have stepped over the line between friends and more than friends. At that point its best to cut all ties. So yes I agree with you, but I wouldn't consider that breaking someone's heart.

[Scarface]

well I counted those who had been very close as friends. Then they proposed and i took a step backwards after rejecting. I never wanted to go back to being friends with them either. So i said i was ruthless.

I can help you balance your sins, propose to me and I will reject you.

[Zamana]

Re: Broken hearts

none and I never will.

[Sara516]

Re: Broken hearts

I was rejected once and man that hurt BIG TIME. Took me a while to get over it. Now I wanna smack myself for wasting so much energy and thoughts on one guy…not that he was a loser or anything but he dinnit deserve all that pining

But broken hearts can come from other sources as well…its not just romantic…when a person loses someone to illness, violence, or just bad circumstances, thats heart breaking as well.

My heart breaks every time I see my nephews cry

[CM]

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Sara I already said I was sorry for that. Why must you remind me of the mistake I made? sniff

[redvelvet]

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It varies, for some people hurt feelings are synonymous with a broken heart.

[Sehrysh]

@CM

Jalpari there is difference between breaking a woman’s heart and just saying no to some “random” proposal.

Breaking someone’s heart requires you to be close enough to that person that they value you as per they would value their family. Breaking a woman’s heart is not saying no to date. It is a far more nefarious and tragic thing.

I am not sure if I am getting my point across. To break a woman’s heart you have to get close to her to the extent that she cares for you deeply and then destroy something she holds dearly to the extent that she is devastated. Same applies for men, but then again I don’t go for dudes.

Rejecting someone is not breaking their heart.

Aaj suraj kis taraf sai nikla hai - I agree with CM

The other person needs to be emotionally invested in you for your saying no to them or disappointing them to actually hurt their heart.

I’ve said no to guys and there have some who weren’t interested in pursuing it any further with me - in all but one situation, no hearts were broken. And in the one where his feelings were hurt - he wasn’t in love - he was infatuated.

As CM said, saying no to a random proposal does not equate with breaking the person’s heart - more likely his/her pride - but not his/her heart.

[Gina]

I think it’s only possible to ‘break a heart’ when you’re serious about someone or already in a relationship.. otherwise it’s just ‘letting-them-down’.

[Boredman]

Re: Broken hearts

It’s the burning in your chest
the frail last breathe
the final look of regret
the epitome of saddness............ Does You Wanna Hear More About Broken Heart?

[mbar]

Re: Broken hearts

2 times very very badly... :,(

[Simply_Seema]

@jalpari90

Karma:smack: I know we had enough discussion over it here but you cant relate everything to it. If some one has serious feelings, how am i responsible for that and how is it gonna come around hitting me in the face?

now a days ppl dun hv serious feelings 4 any 1 without getting any green signal frm the other side, laugaun kay paas time nahin hay waste karnay k lye