Re: broken dreams
Look, all you can see is text…you can’t see my facial expressions or hear the tone of my voice. It seems to me that you’re assuming that I responded to your thread in a negative frame of mind or with negative intentions and that is not the case. You’re sounding defensive when I’m not accusing you, nor did I have such intentions. I have not said that you haven’t helped her in other ways. What I meant was that if you cannot reach her (let’s say you live far away…or there are other constraints that prevent you from being near her)…then you can also try to help her in an indirect way…and so you won’t feel as if you didn’t help her during THIS critical time (not referring to how you’ve helped her before this). And what I’ve said about your sister is not wrong either, IMO. No, I’m not saying that your sister is irresponsible. Rather that since she’s this woman’s daughter-in-law…she has a more closer rishta to her…more so than her. Perhaps my post wasn’t clear enough, I hope I’ve sorted out the confusion. It’s the weekend, Catskin. Chill. 