British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

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Re: British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

@Sanaya123

I would like to thank everyone on this thread for taking the time to give me advice, not one person has said go along with the marriage for your sisters sake although im sure you understand the situation quite well. Most of the commenters on here are older, smarter and a lot more experienced in life than me, and I started this thread to know you’re opinions and what you would do. It would be extremely foolish me to go ahead and ignore your advice, and I really don’t think I can ruin my life like that.

I’ve decided to talk to my brother, in hope that he would be willing to help me, I have no idea what his response might be and im extremely scared for myself and my sister, but I can’t go through the running away route, and this is the only alternative I can think of! Please wish me luck:)

Hope it all turns out alright inshallah. Do not run away or do anything like that if circumstances are not that bad because think about how that would ruin your reputation along with your families. There is plenty of help centres that deal and help you with situation like that and you can confide in them. Your brother will be fine hearing this, seriously don’t fret because he is your brother and he obviously wants you to be happy. You should tell him all the truth and say that you are not happy marrying your cousin. Good luck!

p.s Allah is all knowing and knows best and he is there listening to your problems and will give you a solution for this troubled time