British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

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Re: British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

@Sanaya123

I have the problem of the guy being my sister’s husbands brother, my sis is 8 months pregnant and happily living with her husband, but if I refuse this rishta, he’ll no doubt have bad feelings and most likely take it out on my sis. He is also my mom’s sisters son, who will again take her anger out on my mom. In this situation, if I thought solely about myself, I can easily get out of it and never look back, becoming completely detached to that family is one of my greatest dreams, but independence is not when you leave others to deal with the consequences of your actions, I don’t know how to apply my education to the situation to stop my actions affecting the people I love

OMG Well you sister is man enough to deal with her husband, and your mom, well moms are tough…don’t ruin your life for others, this thinking of oh mai qurbaani de doongi is too bollywood, dog eat dog world honey, people die and your left with crap. Be selfish, think about YOU. Your sister and mom are married now, their life will not be affected by you saying no. In a few months people will forget about it, seriously, paki thinking…your actions will only affect the people who really love you if 1/2 years down the line your crying to your mom and sis…seriously, not worth the hassle,
unless your not totally in love then do not compromise your happiness to live with a man for the sake of it…what a waste of life, happiness and opportunities…life is tooooooo beautiful to be wasted on someone who your forced with…why not choose??