British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

[Sanaya123]

Re: British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

@Princess1983

With all due respect OP; if your sister is telling you that what she witnessed may imply he has gotten worse why oh why do you wish to torture yourself in the long run?
IMHO if you struggle to respect someone it’s hard to build it-especially on subjects you believe in. I believe you should work hard for a living; and earn your own keep. It annoys the hell out of me when you get requests for £500.00 phones for siblings that sit at home doing nothing ‘because their sibling is in England’.
His mentality will be a mixture of a lot of things-including his upbringing, his social circle and his own personality.
The fact he got annoyed at the whole ‘permission’ thing to be should have your alarm bells ringing and you putting your heart firmly on a decision that may cause pain in the short run for your family yes but in the long run it’s less headache.
Sorry if I missed this but this is your sisters BIL right? How does your BIL feel if you don’t marry his brother? Will it be one of those situ’s where you. sister is stopped from seeing her family? If that’s the case just prepare for a temporary crying/hissy fit phase from the extended family.

My sis is 8 months pregnant, and my BIL has his permanent residency in the UK, im afraid that if I refuse, he’ll leave her, even if it’s only to persuade me to marry his bro, it’s not good for my sis in this condition, she’s extremely over emotional anyway