British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

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Re: British Pakistani girls marrying Pakistani guys

@khattichic

Marry him.

And in another year you’ll be back here opening a thread about the slew of problems in your marriage.

I’m not trying to be snarky here, but seriously?! This is your life. You have every right, religiously and socially to have a say in who you marry.

When will desi parents get their head out of their butts and stop this madness of marrying off their daughters to relatives back home, when there is clearly no match between the two, It’s so irritating. Too old after 25? What will peuole say? Who cares!!!

And even more irritating are the educated girls, much like yourself, who against their better judgement, go along with it “just because”.

Good luck.

I think in cases like these the girls are responsible for their fate. It seems like the OP is too scared to take ownership for her own future.