Bringing up 'sughhar' sons ?

Royal_Gala · November 28, 2013, 4:01pm

Re: Bringing up ‘sughhar’ sons ?

i’m a sughaR man lol i learned all by myself.

actually, my mom passed away when i was only 9 and she left behind my sister 5 ans 1.5 years old…i had to share the responsibility to raise the two siblings and i remember changing her diaper, readying her bottle, putting her to bed, playing with her, washing dishes, sweeping the floor…i did everything along with my older sisters…slowly and slowly i learned how to run the house and raise kids…i learned it all in less than 2 years…i never learned cooking though…when i came to Canada, i learned making some of the Italian and Mexican food for my niece and nephew who i LOVE immensely and who love me back and love my cooking!

thank God! i a’m so sughaR masha Allah and ready to get married but no girl has seen me in action in my kitchen so my talent is largely hidden i hope someday someone special will barge in my kitchen and after seeing me there will propose to me right in the kitchen!

I will be very honest I am not too fond of you most days; but your post has me in tears, you are good in my books :k:…carry on my friend carry on!!!

Khan4Life · November 28, 2013, 8:29pm

Re: Bringing up ‘sughhar’ sons ?

When my family moved out to separate home in Pakistan, me and my brother used to do vacuum, cleaning windows and sometimes later even our washroom and I was 12 and bro was 9 and I’ve a sister too but was quite young at that time. Me and bro never helped in the kitchen except times when my mother got ill. My brother loves to fix anything he finds in the home by himself and if he can’t then we bring plumber, electrician whatever and it’s skill every man should have and when I moved to Canada, I used to live with my relatives, so started to clean my own dishes for the first time and now I’m on my own due to some reasons so I’ve to do everything by myself from cooking to cleaning and I study part time also so it’s a bit of hectic. The thing I hate most more than cooking is cleaning dishes more when you get back from work tired and then have to cook and clean, gets stressed out sometimes but then I think it’s not only me, there are other guys living like me. Sometimes I desperately feel having a wife to share my loneliness and responsibilities but my hands are tied. So I can proudly say I’m sughar now even more than a girl of today.