Bringing up 'sughhar' sons ?

[ninjamummy]

Re: Bringing up ‘sughhar’ sons ?

@prototype

**Some Arabs already do that !! The groom has to prove he’s able to have a wife and run a household by setting up and decorating a complete unit where the couple can live after marriage.
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Lol khawa that’s true but unfortunately the “cultural norms” teach that a girl is supposed to take care of ghar and the boy has to take care of bahir ka kaam AND IF the guy is not earning enough to run the household (because mehngaai bahut hai) then the wife is SUPPOSED to share the financial burden lekin phir bhi the guy is not taught to help with her primary responsibilities. We need to amend this mindset I guess.

Many Arabs do this. I have quite a few Arab friends, and every single female went into a purchased house/apt or a rented dwelling; each dwelling was fully furnished, by the man.