Bringing up 'sughhar' sons ?

[ninjamummy]

Re: Bringing up ‘sughhar’ sons ?

@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

i didn’t say it’s sunnat!

today’s parents have to arrange for jahez to get a better rishta for their daughters even if those daughters are high qualified and in good jobs. if the situation is reversed where girls’ parents can dictate the better terms of rishta [asking for more and more jahez] then same thing will happen with men. they will have to give jahez to girls to get better rishtas

This is OT, but would YOU/ your family allow /you to marry a woman whose family gave no jahez? Just wondering.

I have pretty highly qualified daughters academically and in Islamic knowledge. There is always some issue, ie that we reside in a small house, or something or other. I will not be giving jahez to any of my daughters , because giving my daughter in marriage is enough. My parenst did not give jahez for me or my sisters, nor accept jahez for my bhabhis, 'cept one who insisted on the bedroom set which is stuck in Pakistan gathering dust while she resides in the UK.