Re: BrideZillas?
i call myself a bridezilla, but i take that word as seriously as it sounds, which isn't very much at all!!!! i think it is funny term!
call me what you want; bridezilla, anal, superficial etc. but i call it perfectionism and attention to detail.
I want things to be be perfect, i have the perfect man, and IA i will will have a long a happy marriage, we are soulmates i have no concerns about how my marriage will be, we have been together for coming up to 2 years. By putting effort into the wedding day doesn't mean i'll have a crap marraige!!!!
My wedding is small about 90 guests, so it isn't a big wedding at all!!! it is a small but carefully planned wedding, if i was wedding obsessed i'd be having a 500 people wedding with fireworks and horses but i'm not. Only nearest and dearest, because the day is special and i only want people there who i want there. I am therefore WANTING to give these people i love a wonderful day, it's my day, but i want people to feel special and enjoy every second of it.
Due to a number of reasons i am organising the wedding myself, with the help of dad's credit card!!!! However i am chosing the venue, outfits, flowers et but as a 25 year old independent woman , i think i can allow myself that responsibility!!!! Sara,i think you were brave handing over all responsibility, especially your clothes (which turned out good, as you looked lovely!) but i would never be able to relinquish that kind of responsiblity to others!!
i am just a perfectionist and i plan things to the T, it's just me and it always has been whether it is my wedding or my career,in which i decided to do medicine at the age of 12 and i succeeded with that too, so having an anal/perfectionist personality isn't always such a bad thing!!!!!!!
Mehnaz is also right, we rant on this forum, as we can't do it to the people we want to do it to. We moan and biatch, because we can only do it to you guys, it's not meant to be a serious discussion, we are just venting our frustrations!!!!!! do you really think we are going to clamber down the stage in our wedding gear to smack the kid poking his fingers in our cake?!?!?!?!!?!?!!?!?!?