Re: Bridesmaids/Maid of Honor!
BR, par, thanks ladies! very sweet of you to say :)
my girls were my two bff's, my closest cousin, and my hubby's sister. they threw me my shower, took care of a million big and little things in the days up to the wedding, calmed me down numerous times esp. the night before, and made sure i had zero worries the day of. the important thing is: you gotta pick girls who love you and want to be there and be part of your bridal party as fun/dances aside, its still a responsibility. i had asked another gf of mine initially but she told me she couldn't manage to be there for me considering she had a new baby to take care of, so i asked another friend. and i really appreciated her honesty!
mum and i did a variety of "thank you" things for them too- paid for their hair and makeup on the day of the wedding, chooriyan and outfits for the mehendi, gift sets from the body shop, etc. these are all just tokens though- bff's are bff's! you can never really thank them! :)