Re: Brides 2015!
I met him 3 years ago at university. We were friends for a couple of months but fell in love pretty quickly. Because of a variety of circumstances, we couldn’t get married as soon as we would like. I was still at Med school and he was struggling to find a job as a lawyer. Those were immensely difficult times, I have never felt so isolated and so burdened in my life. It is very difficult to see the person you love suffer (a variety of even more serious reasons that I won’t go into now,meant that his unemployment was particularly severe and difficult to bear for him) especially when you cannot be there for them to support them as much as you would like because you are not married. My parents refused to let me marry until he found a job.
Now, alhamdullilah, he has found an excellent job and I am really proud of him. But more importantly he is the most relaxed and happy and looking forward to life, and we are no longer stuck in this hellish limbo with no end in sight.
My my experiences have given me a lot of respective, and after the struggled we have been through, we really don’t mind how the wedding happens, as long as it happens!